Sunday, July 17, 2011

Would ever not date or dump a guy because he's... Poor?

So long story short, my mom is always telling me I need to marry rich and "don't be with some broke guy who has nothing".. She kind of lives her dreams through me and my brother (she's a great mom I swear) but she just wants us to be rich and successful whereas I just wanna get married and have babies. Anyways my bf... I love him but I know my mom would never want me to be with him because he doesn't make a lot of money. He works at walmart (I know... Embarrassing!) but he works hard and he is looking for more work and considering joining the army. Basically he didn't always work at walmart when he graduated college with a bachelors in business he moved to new york had a good job and made good money then he got laid off because he was a newer worker and they were downsizing and he had to move back home to Louisiana and find a job to make some money.. So there wad walmart. I am embarrassed of his job but I love him and I know he is saving up. I feel like I am torn between being pissed off that he's poor and can't buy my nice things and being like in love and not caring. I just want to fully not care and just love him and be like whatever but I know my mom thought it was a joke that he worked at walmart.. Like after I told her she stopped taking him seriously as a candidate for me. I do not know how far he and I will go but I hope oneday (sooner rather than later) I get married to him and have babies. But part of me is still hoping to meet some rich man who will like buy my a 7 ct diamond ring and live in a million dollar home with 4 Mercedes Benz cars lol or BMW or anything rich people drive. So idk I love him but I loooovvvvvveeeeee money too lol but if I give him up he's the best thing that's happened to me so that's not an option. I think if we end up together we could make it work.. He has a business degree and I want to open a business.. A baby boutique one day. I just don't sant my mom to look down on him and I don't wanna disappoint her

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